okay, i admit, you could have compromised judgment because you're in love. but that was going to happen no matter who you fell for, yusuke, that's part of being a person. it's no one's fault.
i don't know enough details of what happened to say why you're getting the silent treatment but. if YOU feel like you're out of control, get a therapist, but don't let someone else dictate that kind of thing to you. you sit down and think about if you feel in control of your life or not and make that choice and work it out. without the people who won't support you, if you have to.
i am the master of clinging to toxic friendships back home so let me be the first to tell you that sometimes, the correct response to someone walking away is to let them do it instead of chasing after them. give him time to process and give yourself some time to figure your own shit out.
whatever happens, for whatever my opinion's worth after all i've done, i don't think you being in love with two guys is a bad thing. it may be tricky to get the relationship to work, but 1. they always are and 2. it's worth it.
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Date: 2017-08-13 02:09 pm (UTC)i don't know enough details of what happened to say why you're getting the silent treatment but. if YOU feel like you're out of control, get a therapist, but don't let someone else dictate that kind of thing to you. you sit down and think about if you feel in control of your life or not and make that choice and work it out. without the people who won't support you, if you have to.
i am the master of clinging to toxic friendships back home so let me be the first to tell you that sometimes, the correct response to someone walking away is to let them do it instead of chasing after them. give him time to process and give yourself some time to figure your own shit out.
whatever happens, for whatever my opinion's worth after all i've done, i don't think you being in love with two guys is a bad thing. it may be tricky to get the relationship to work, but 1. they always are and 2. it's worth it.