it varies by state and, in the south, by sex act. it's not something i have to worry about right away - we're not really at that stage in our relationship - but knowing makes him more comfortable discussing it, so i've been doing some reading.
i'm not even gonna jokingly offer to help you hands-on. mostly because it would break manabu's heart and i'd sooner shoot myself than do that. but most people don't have hands-on learning prior and the human race has managed so far.
don't worry about it too much. there's more to life than sex, and yes, i know coming from me that's fucking hilarious, but still.
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Date: 2017-11-18 07:48 am (UTC)i'm not even gonna jokingly offer to help you hands-on. mostly because it would break manabu's heart and i'd sooner shoot myself than do that. but most people don't have hands-on learning prior and the human race has managed so far.
don't worry about it too much. there's more to life than sex, and yes, i know coming from me that's fucking hilarious, but still.