hiding it well isn't the same as not feeling it. and a lot of people fake confidence because they don't want to worry someone they love. he loves you, therefore he's going to try to push through any awkwardness and go for it. it's not uncommon.
yes, i do. it's not about the fire, it's about the fact that the wrong angle can make someone feel trapped when they're bottoming... which for you would bring up a set of claustrophobic memories that would result in a panic attack.
how i died made me aquaphobic because of the *feeling* of drowning even though i didn't drown. it's not a 1-to-1 correlation scale. and i don't want to think about how awful it would be for you to have a panic attack in the middle of what's supposed to be a beautiful, romantic, intimate moment. so at least think it over, okay? maybe consider positions that don't invoke that feeling. you've got options.
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yes, i do. it's not about the fire, it's about the fact that the wrong angle can make someone feel trapped when they're bottoming... which for you would bring up a set of claustrophobic memories that would result in a panic attack.
how i died made me aquaphobic because of the *feeling* of drowning even though i didn't drown. it's not a 1-to-1 correlation scale. and i don't want to think about how awful it would be for you to have a panic attack in the middle of what's supposed to be a beautiful, romantic, intimate moment. so at least think it over, okay? maybe consider positions that don't invoke that feeling. you've got options.